Re: Really? Again!
I didn't say to check up on him. I said to demand that - in order for him to GET to stay in your home after what he did - HE MUST NOT CHEAT.
It's not that hard a concept for him to get. He can either STOP CHEATING or he can go out on the streets and figure out how to put a roof over his head. Cuz the money from working will be going to you and the kids. Your lawyer will see to that.
But nobody can make this happen except YOU.
It's time for you to put on your big girl pants and do what an ADULT and a MOTHER would do: protect her family from a predator.
And right now, HE is the predator.
If you have to ask for the help of your family and friends, his family, your priest, the tooth fairy, I don't care. Just make it happen.