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post #16 of 23 (permalink) Old 04-20-2017, 09:12 AM
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Re: Has feelings for a women

I just don't see this as a gender orientation/attraction issue... this is nothing more than a looking outside the relationship for a connection issue.

Genders make little difference in how these scripts play out, whether needs are founded in awareness or founded in unmindful wandering.

In the end as @SunCMars said, many of us do not share well.

Whatever she is looking for, her choices are outside of your control... your choices are not.

When others are not willing to love and respect us, it is time to double that down on self... choose wisely for the things you can attain.


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Any number of men can work and are willing to work within the problem if they can finagle it where they are the one that's getting shared between wife and her girlfriend. The problem, as Ive said many, many time before, is the vast majority of women have lost interest in their mate before exploring other territory. This chick has done wiped her feet on ole Mr.Doormat and gave him the "let's just be friends speech." (nice summary of the "ILYBINILWY") Stick a fork in him. If he's hell bent to not let her go, he need to start thinking of her as a pet rock.

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Stop being a doormat. Decide what you are ok with and stick with it.

If you are not interested in a non-manogamous relationship, then don't stay in one.

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go see your attorney.

Send the D papers to the school and have her served.

She has been playing with you for some time.

She does not get to choose anymore.

Do not play the pick me game!
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The fact she's cheating with a woman makes no difference. She's CHEATING.

So what are you going to do about it??

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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Only a ****ty person would use the gender of their affair partner as a justification. Especially if they never had any gender confusion in the past. Basically some cheaters could have an affair with a piece of paper they are so broken. Hell half of them have texting affairs with people they have even seen in person. Half way round the world.

I read one time about a guy having an online affair with someone and when they finally met it turned out it was another guy who was crazy enough to believe that there love could overcome such an inconvenience. I love that one! Imagine being that dumb ass, going to meet the model in the picture who you thought was the girl of your dreams and it turns out to be Harry the 50 year old plumber with his but crack hanging out. How glorious. It's just a shame someone had to have been fooled badly enough to marry such a nincompoop.

Anyway see this for what it is, just your ordinary common backstabbing affair.
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One post, no response, my wife may be a lesbian...

Not looking hopeful.

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