I've been going through this for 3 weeks now. My husband has been having an emotional affair that has lead to hickies on her neck. But it all started with them being friends and riding into work together, 3rd shift factory work. And now they have a "special connection he and I never had". I know I haven't showed him the appreciation he deserves and the love, I am 16 weeks pregnant and we have a 4 year old So I'm kinda wore out alot. But I finally told him I couldn't take it anymore and he needed to leave. But I don't want him to leave. I want us to work out. But he is so blinded by her I can't get through to him anymore. He says it's too late for us. He is always very truthful with me to the point that it hurts so much to hear it. We've been married 4 years together 7. He plans on staying in his father's house until he gets outta jail in 2 months, yea I know. I do not believe a word this woman says about anything. She has a 9 year old daughter that never seems like is with her but oh she has custody, but the list goes on, not important. I believe she is using my pregnancy in her favor, telling me to my face she only cared about herself but telling him she worried about me and if I needed to get ahold of him at work I could message her. Nope that's not gonna happen. But I was hoping that me tellin him to leave would help him finally realize he's throwing away everything for something he's not sure of with a girl who's had a bad reputation since she was in high school. I'm miserable and need help or a reassuring word. He doesnt wabt to grt a divorce yet, he said he doesnt know why, just in case. We have a kid and one on the way so he wants to be around for all of that but it kills me. I want him away so he can have time to miss me. HELP