Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

warlock07 · 03-01-2012, 09:34 PM

Next time, wank one before you go out and meet her ...

chapparal · 03-01-2012, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by bmichael

Hasn't affected my resolve at all. Maybe even increased it since I recognize that she was trying to manipulate me.

Manipulating you to do what?

bmichael · 03-01-2012, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by chapparal

Manipulating you to do what?

To change my stance on primary custody.

F-102 · 03-01-2012, 10:18 PM

I'd love to see her face when she realizes you won't change your stance on custody after you "gave in" to her.

She will be soooooooo p*ssed!

bandit.45 · 03-01-2012, 10:22 PM

B- you need to tell your lawyer what you did. You just sealed the deal on her getting PC.
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chapparal · 03-02-2012, 06:27 AM

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To change my stance on primary custody.

I'm wondering if she might be thinking of reconciling. Would you be up for that?

bmichael · 03-02-2012, 07:09 AM

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I'm wondering if she might be thinking of reconciling. Would you be up for that?

I don't think that's the case, and I don't know if I'd be up for it either. I don't think it was anything more than just sex. At least that's the way I'm looking at it because it hasn't changed the way I feel about anything.

bmichael · 03-02-2012, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

B- you need to tell your lawyer what you did. You just sealed the deal on her getting PC.
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I'm going to talk to the lawyer today about it.

Almostrecovered · 03-02-2012, 07:15 AM

oh boy

chapparal · 03-02-2012, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

B- you need to tell your lawyer what you did. You just sealed the deal on her getting PC.
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Why? I don't see what's the dif?

Almostrecovered · 03-02-2012, 07:21 AM

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Why? I don't see what's the dif?

could be a big deal in the alienation of affectation suit

bmichael · 03-02-2012, 07:28 AM

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could be a big deal in the alienation of affectation suit

I didn't really think about this until afterward and that's what I'm thinking as well. I probably torpedoed that case.

On the other hand, it left my wife kinda vulnerable I guess because she starting tell me all kinds of things about her lawyer, her schedule, money, school, etc.

Her life is more complicated with all the things she's doing now than when we were living together! There's no way she'd be able to care for our kids properly in a joint agreement.

Almostrecovered · 03-02-2012, 07:32 AM

well Im not certain of anything, but mention it to your lawyer so he can tell you

bandit.45 · 03-02-2012, 07:43 AM

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I'm wondering if she might be thinking of reconciling. Would you be up for that?

No, she's trying to discredit him. I'm telling ya. He can no longer use adultery against her in the custody hearings. By having sex with her he has legally condoned and forgiven.

Someone on her side has been coaching her. She probably banged a law student.
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lordmayhem · 03-02-2012, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

No, she's trying to discredit him. I'm telling ya. He can no longer use adultery against her in the custody hearings. By having sex with her he has legally condoned and forgiven.

Someone on her side has been coaching her. She probably banged a law student.
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