Just discovered possible EA after Wife said she wants to separate...

Beowulf · 03-02-2012, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

B- you realize that you have just blown any chance of using adultery against her in the divorce? By having sex you have legally forgiven and aquitted her of her affairs and adulterous behavior? Her lawyer is going to have a field day with your a*s.
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Nope, he can just deny it ever happened. Unless she had a VAR hidden somewhere.

DailyGrind · 03-02-2012, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Beowulf

Nope, he can just deny it ever happened. Unless she had a VAR hidden somewhere.

Which he wouldn't know until he pergers himself in court...and they whip out the VAR.

Shaggy · 03-02-2012, 08:27 AM

slow down guys - they had sex.

His estranged wife offered a guy sex after he hadn't had it in 4 months because he was still being faithful.

that isn't him accepting her affair, and it didn't get them back together - so her affection is still alienated.

Tall Average Guy · 03-02-2012, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by DailyGrind

Which he wouldn't know until he pergers himself in court...and they whip out the VAR.

They would have to produce that in discovery. Unless B's lawyer is a complete idiot, they will be requesting that information from her (assuming that she argues it as a defense).

bandit.45 · 03-02-2012, 08:48 AM

Austin is a lawyer. Ill msg him and see if he responds.
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Complexity · 03-02-2012, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by bandit.45

By having sex with her he has legally condoned and forgiven.

It does

, What if they were in the process of reconciling but that broke down, it wouldn't change the fact that she cheated or his case against her?

bandit.45 · 03-02-2012, 09:03 AM

I think it wipes her slate clean.
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snap · 03-02-2012, 09:28 AM

They are still a husband and a wife legally, you make it sound like he committed a crime by engaging in consensual sex. If that really has any effect on how you handle divorce over there in the States, it's frankly ridiculous.

gpa · 03-02-2012, 09:35 AM

Actually I do not know the legislation over there. And I am well aware that you have large variations from state to state. But it seems quite impossible to excuse her adultery behavior just by having sex with the STBXH, especially for custody reasons. Well here in Europe, there is not such a thing. And I am thinking that actually this behavior implies and proves emotional instability which is another point for B’s favour.

bmichael · 03-02-2012, 01:26 PM

The drama keeps rolling...

Wife called about our mediation appointment today but then she said something about coming over to the house on Sunday night to watch a TV show that we use to watch together. WTF is going on?!

Almostrecovered · 03-02-2012, 01:30 PM

maybe she's still horny?

bandit.45 · 03-02-2012, 01:32 PM

Ughhh boy....

I guess she wants more.
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Complexity · 03-02-2012, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by bmichael

The drama keeps rolling...

Wife called about our mediation appointment today but then she said something about coming over to the house on Sunday night to watch a TV show that we use to watch together. WTF is going on?!

what was your response?

gpa · 03-02-2012, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by bmichael

The drama keeps rolling...

Wife called about our mediation appointment today but then she said something about coming over to the house on Sunday night to watch a TV show that we use to watch together. WTF is going on?!

R perhaps?

bmichael · 03-02-2012, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Complexity

what was your response?

I deflected and switched the subject.