03-02-2012, 05:13 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: New here - My EA and confused love story
so, just a real quick update from me...since our first couple of days of talking, there has been ZERO mention of anything! I think she is in denial, but it's like no one wants to address the elephant in the room. ALL physical contact has stopped, no ILYs anymore, but yet she's super friendly and cordial - not cold, yet also not addressing anything. Is she just in denial? If anything we have become MORE like roomates than ever before - to me it speaks volumes that neither of us are making any effort at all to fix things. It's as if we're both just uninterested in fixing things...I don't know, I guess I thought there would be some more fight on her end after things were out in the open...maybe she is just having a hard time dealing. I can tell you that in my head, I have basically checked out...I guess at some point soon I'm going to have to let her know that - trying to give her time to adjust. Thanks for listening..