1 heart, a billion pieces

chapparal · 01-09-2012, 01:40 PM

This is what they wanted to do. Now help them crash and burn. OM wants to go around and bang all the married women he works with so now let him feel the cost of it all. Call their personell dept asap.

By the way, when the OM"s wife is contacted , they are almost universally glad someone told them. She will probably make a comment that she knew something was going on but could not prove it.

Pluck this little roosters feathers!

JustaJerk · 01-09-2012, 02:10 PM

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Pluck this little roosters feathers!

Yup, yup... he needs to be serrrrrved.

TDSC60 · 01-09-2012, 02:30 PM

Contact the HR Dept. Tell them "I have just found out that my wife is having an affair with POSOM. Over the last year she told me that she went on business trip to X on this date, Y on that date ..... I would like to know if these were legitimate business trips. Plus was POSOM authorized to go with her .. because he did.

HR will not care about the affair if they are just co-workers. But if one is a supervisor and the other is a subordinate, then it is a different story. This situation can develop into a sexual harassment law suite. Companies take this seriously.

Or if HR can prove one or both used company funds to carry on the affair, then all hell will break loose.

mdg_hope · 01-09-2012, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by TDSC60

Contact the HR Dept. Tell them "I have just found out that my wife is having an affair with POSOM. Over the last year she told me that she went on business trip to X on this date, Y on that date ..... I would like to know if these were legitimate business trips. Plus was POSOM authorized to go with her .. because he did.

HR will not care about the affair if they are just co-workers. But if one is a supervisor and the other is a subordinate, then it is a different story. This situation can develop into a sexual harassment law suite. Companies take this seriously.

Or if HR can prove one or both used company funds to carry on the affair, then all hell will break loose.

Actually I don't care about any of that. Really don't care if they went on the company dime or not, I highly doubt they did. She has worked very hard for the job she has. 8+ years of school and hard work. It's not a jobby job. I can't take that away from her. She cheated on me not them. What I can take away from her is me and more and more I am realizing that is just what I should do. She's trying to pretend everything is just great again and we can work on things. I'm finding it harder and harder to love her like I once did. There is a history of this behavior. She doesn't give a s*** about me, how can she? I'll make sure her OM's wife finds out the WHOLE truth. I will have her write an email to him with me watching with what I feel is appropriate to end it as long as we are still married. She wants to downgrade to him after I leave her then nock your socks off. God knows they both deserve each other! When I leave she will suffer terribly but that wasn't my choice, it was hers so I can't feel bad for that.

calif_hope · 01-09-2012, 04:12 PM

She needs to send an email to the other man's wife
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TDSC60 · 01-09-2012, 04:16 PM

Sounds like you have come to the end of your rope with her. Good for you! Protect yourself legally and financially. From your thread you are now thinking clearly for the first time in over 5 years.

Good luck.

chapparal · 01-09-2012, 04:24 PM

Absolutely do not let her know you are going to contact other mans
wife. She will tell him and he will warn his wife that you are nuts and having some kind of jealous, mental breakdown, ranting and raving. Sorry but this crap always goes through the same cheaters script.

Best of luck to your family.

2nd_t!me iz_best · 01-09-2012, 04:28 PM

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OMG your right. I tried to contact the OM's wife. I know she didn't see it and he intercepted it, don't know for sure but definitely looks that way, He told my wife I tried to do this and she stuck up for him!!!! saying it was a really ****ty thing to do and do you want to make him hurt just because you are. YES!! But I did concede in the end that I will hold my chin up and be the bigger person in all of this when I walk away. I'll have help up my end of the deal!

i parked down the street from om house and when he left for work and his wife took their kids to school bus stop, i made sure his wife saw me go to the door and put the note on so she would see it.

his wife obviously called him right away then he called my ex wife who gave him my cell number. within about 30-40 minutes of me putting the note on the door HE was texting ME not to ph@k with HIS family

sob would never actually talk, only hiding behind texting.

even after the first time i caught her and she informed om i knew, i was stupid enough to stick around to catch her in some form of contact 7 more times. (how many times does it take an idiot to figure out things just wont change)

dont put yourself in my position.

expose everyone involved to everybody that needs to know.

who cares about her job, she obviously didnt to start that in the first place.
didnt care about you or the family.
why should you care about what happens to her job from exposing it if she didnt.

i threatened my ex i would tell her boss if she didnt. she told them and the om lost the account at her place of work over it.

i say ph@k them in the azz, who cares what happens to them and their jobs.

CH · 01-09-2012, 04:33 PM

Time to get out, there is no remorse and who knows how many guys there have been over the years. You'll never know and you don't want to know anymore.

Shaggy · 01-09-2012, 04:39 PM

You are reacting out of hurt and betrayal. You are also talking yourself into doing nothing to disrupt the affair.
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