Re: Still in shock
I am in the same situation. My husband is in a relationship with our neighbor that I thought was over last year. It has been 2 -3 yrs also. My thought is that it is not an AFFAIR but a relationship. She has all the info she needs to manipulate him and tell him what he wants to hear, because she was a friend of mine and our families spent so much time together. Ironically, she is overweight and not very attractive. However, he has been treating me like crap and I am the ***** Wife in this situation, so I do not think I can live with the destruction this has had on my marriage and family. I sent an email to him at Christmas saying I wanted him to love me again, with no reply. Pretty sad. So, I have done the 180 and going back to my counselor with my kids and filing for divorce. She can have him! Just worried about my two boys 13 and 10, because they are good friends with her 3 boys. What a mess.