Re: Am I Silly?
If they were having an affair for eight years what is the difference when it started or ended? How could you have had any type of marriage during that time? He cheated on you as well as cheated you out of all those years of life. There is no way he was a dedicated husband if he was dividing his time between two women. How could you ever trust him going foreward? Finding out all the dirty little details will only make you feel worse.
As for the skank friend, heres my quick little story.
My wife and her best friends boyfriend began an affair that ended our marriage (final straw for me). The affair has been public knowledge for three months now, the best friend, the girl that lost both the male love of her life and her closest female friend is an absolute emotional basket case. After three months she still misses her boyfriend but what my wife did to her has crushed her, it has taken away her will to live. Some friend my wife was.
Here is my point; You said the girl was your best friend, but your husband should have been your best friend, and best friends DON'T HURT EACH OTHER ! I'm sure they both have claimed they didn't want to hurt you, but the problem is they didn't try and NOT hurt you. Affairs don't happen accidently, they take planning, lies and deceit. These two SOB's have never been your friends, I say flush them both down the toilet after you use them to wipe your arse. You don't need or want to know anything more than you already do, why stick the knife deeper? It's time to reclaim your life and find happiness. Be strong.
Last edited by Cooper; 01-24-2009 at 04:43 PM.