Re: When a wife cries rape after an affair
My wife is claiming that she gave him oral 6 times in the workplace and she didn't want to but he threatened her job. Following that was the work party which was when he allegedly raped her with penetrative sex threatening to fire her if she didn't oblige or if she told anyone. After the work party my wife spend the night with a friend because she was too ashamed to come home and didn't know what to tell me. Her boss is married and he does have the power to fire her and in turn force her to go home, and I'd of course go with her. If my wife were fired she would need to leave the country and go back home, I'd go with her we've had enough problems being separate. We're on a contract and would pay about $6000 to terminate it if we both left right now. That, and being foreign she doesn't want to report it.
It doesn't add up in my head. Why wouldn't she say anything before when it was "just" oral? In what world is that acceptable? The friend that she allegedly stayed with would lie through her teeth. If I hadn't called her out she wouldn't have told me at all, which screams affair not rape. She hasn't wanted to have sex, but that can be explained by the STD (as well as rape). However, when it was "just" oral our sex life didn't suffer. (Yes, btw I have been tested).