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Old 01-18-2012, 02:15 PM   #76 (permalink)
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I left here over two years ago because somebody was an ass on a thread discussing a topic that is very important to me, and a moderator locked. That pissed me off. I just came back to update my story. We'll see if I stick around.

This is not the place to be flippant or cruel. People post here because they are in the worse pain they've ever experienced.
you can't take it personally if your thread gets locked, just because you are genuine and sincere doesn't mean that other commenters on the thread are. If it was locked it wasn't because of you, the mods just had to deal with the problem with the tools they have at their disposal, and when a thread spirals downwards fast they just have to close it.
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Old 01-18-2012, 02:34 PM   #77 (permalink)
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I'm curious as to who the other personalities were as I'd like to read some more fiction by the same author.
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Old 01-18-2012, 02:42 PM   #78 (permalink)
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Clairbear and Cantbelieve.

It makes sense. Their unbelievable stories progressed at an unbelievable rate. I thought odd was how Clairbear, after having been gone for a while, popped back up suddenly when some folks bumped his thread.
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makes me doubt the sincerity of all the really crazy new posts that get on here. Like jaimie's (not making accusations, just that its hard to offer a well thought-out reply when you question the sincerity of the OP)
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Thank god shamwow wasn't banned!
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Clairbear and Cantbelieve.

It makes sense. Their unbelievable stories progressed at an unbelievable rate. I thought odd was how Clairbear, after having been gone for a while, popped back up suddenly when some folks bumped his thread.
I thought the same thing. Stuff seemed to happen way too fast.
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Old 01-18-2012, 02:54 PM   #82 (permalink)
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Yea - you know we can get all suspicious, but Shamwow and Jaime's threads are within the realm of normality.

Not to say Cantbelieve and ClairBears weren't, but think about their story byline. It was just believeable enough to placate our spidey senses. but everything that happened, was fast paced and came to a "movie conclusion".
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Old 01-18-2012, 03:15 PM   #83 (permalink)
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Is there a penalty box that lists banned members?
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Yeah, but I honestly wish Shamwow as a troll. He's a damn good guy and he shouldn't have gone through what he has.

If he was a troll then it wouldn't be true. Unfortunately it is. Here's to hoping the the redhead works out for him!
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The story itself didn't make me suspect. It was these two things:

1 - How quickly it moved along. Someone mentioned that earlier. I actually posted it in the thread, but not as a trolling accusation.

2 - He confirmed it was an affair because of her internet browsing history. Who doesn't erase their browsing history after looking at ANYTHING more incriminating than kitten videos?
That was me. I too believe every story here is true, until facts don't add up and start becoming red flags. And I know the court system and things simply cannot move that fast. I started recognizing the same writing style in similar stories and the same figure of speech (piss of ****). I had to finally throw the BS flag on cantbelieve's story when he stated that he got the PO on behalf of his wife, which is just not legally possible. Imagine if people were able to get ROs on behalf of other people, even a family member? No, it has to be the victim that has to file it. OM was arrested late Thursday night, WW was in the hospital, and cantbelieve was able to execute a SWORN affadavit for an RO with the district attorney and get the RO on the court dockett BEFORE morning court on Friday? All without the advice of a lawyer, which he didn't see because his lawyer was not in his office Friday? Then his wife gets released from the hospital on Friday night, and a DAY later she's delirious from an infection and had to go to the hospital on Sunday night? Yet she's able to go to MC already by Tuesday. Hmmmmm. Yeah, right. These things caused me to question cantbelieves story, although I never called him a troll outright. To say things moved quickly along is an understatement.

There were numerous inconsistencies with clairebears thread as well. But the story was basically the same, complete with psycho OM with rich enabling parents. And he was careful to not say what state or country he was in. What could the harm be of saying what state you're in? Of course he couldn't say, because anyone could quickly look up the criminal and civil statutes of his state.

As to why someone would troll this site that has quite a few people hurting from infidelity? Because people like that get off on other's misery. Its the same reason why people pull hoaxes, call in bomb threats, or kick over an anthill and get a thrill out of seeing the ants scurry around. He or whatever accomplices he may or may not have had, probably got a kick out of all the angry responses his trolling threads got.
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