I'm new to all this and don't really know where to start but needed to put my thoughts somewhere.
Found out 3 nights ago that my husband slept with another woman 6 months ago. Since then they've been sending dirty messages but never met up again. He also met someone else randomly, saw her for coffee and started dirty messages with her but says nothing happened.
We have had issues for a while but have been trying to work through them. Just not sure how to move on and get our happy marriage back.
Sex was a big issue, after having our second child I was always tired and didn't give him enough attention which is where this all started. He was getting the attention from them that I wasn't giving him.
The infidelity itself I have forgiven. I basically forgave him for it the same night that I found out. It's the messages and lies that came with them that I am struggling to move past.
There was nothing emotional with them but I'm worried that the moment I don't give him what he needs, he will just pick it up again.
I know it's still only fresh but any advice on moving on and helping to get the trust back would be great.
Thanks for reading
Found out 3 nights ago that my husband slept with another woman 6 months ago. Since then they've been sending dirty messages but never met up again. He also met someone else randomly, saw her for coffee and started dirty messages with her but says nothing happened.
We have had issues for a while but have been trying to work through them. Just not sure how to move on and get our happy marriage back.
Sex was a big issue, after having our second child I was always tired and didn't give him enough attention which is where this all started. He was getting the attention from them that I wasn't giving him.
The infidelity itself I have forgiven. I basically forgave him for it the same night that I found out. It's the messages and lies that came with them that I am struggling to move past.
There was nothing emotional with them but I'm worried that the moment I don't give him what he needs, he will just pick it up again.
I know it's still only fresh but any advice on moving on and helping to get the trust back would be great.
Thanks for reading