Re: Urgent advice needed
I moved out in May for a week, she asked me to come back, said it would not happen again.
She says she does love me but cannot stop seeing him.
I kept asking her why she has done this, that she cannot love me, why keep this marriage going. She says she still loves me and wants it to work. Yeah I know, before anyone reads this and replies, I know how stupid that sounds.
The term cake eater describes her perfectly. I can actually understand her wanting to escape from she perceived as my failure and the resulting pain it caused her. I do understand that. What I cannot understand is the lies, the constant bull sh*t and carrying on behind my back. Why not just end it? That really is the question I need answered. I guess I will have to answer it myself, for both of us.