Made this new post since the original kept getting messed up. I'll try to put a link in the old thread if I can figure it out.
Anyways, WW has stopped texting and trying to get back together the past few days. She didn't even call to talk to the kids the last few days they were with me.
Today when I dropped them off to her, she went crazy and said she can't afford the house anymore. And said I should just take the kids because she has no money and can't even afford to drive to work tomorrow (funny though because we had to wait at her house for her to get home from the store 15 miles away).
She threw some bags of my clothes that she had out the door for me to pick up and then was trying to argue with me in front of the kids as I was getting in the car to leave. As I shut the car door to leave, she opened it back up and was arguing still.
She also said she has done nothing but try to be nice and make the divorce easy for me and the kids, and I am wrong for making things difficult.
Then she called my mom later (who I am currently staying with) and told her all the same stuff. She also told her that she is done and no longer wants me to come home.
Then she sent me a long text saying I am mooching off my parents and that they don't really want me here and that she is going to go against the terms of the separation and take the kids and go live with OM since he is a friend and will help her out since I won't.
I told my friend all this earlier, and she said I should call the lawyer tomorrow and try to get full custody. I want to do that but I don't think I can handle them full time on my own. I start a new job in 1 month, that pays a lot more, so I will be able to get my own place and have more options. But with my schedule it will still be hard to get the kids to and from daycare/school.
So now I feel pretty down and am worried about the kids and also worried about WW trying to get me to finance her affair once she finds out I have a new job eventually.
Anyways, WW has stopped texting and trying to get back together the past few days. She didn't even call to talk to the kids the last few days they were with me.
Today when I dropped them off to her, she went crazy and said she can't afford the house anymore. And said I should just take the kids because she has no money and can't even afford to drive to work tomorrow (funny though because we had to wait at her house for her to get home from the store 15 miles away).
She threw some bags of my clothes that she had out the door for me to pick up and then was trying to argue with me in front of the kids as I was getting in the car to leave. As I shut the car door to leave, she opened it back up and was arguing still.
She also said she has done nothing but try to be nice and make the divorce easy for me and the kids, and I am wrong for making things difficult.
Then she called my mom later (who I am currently staying with) and told her all the same stuff. She also told her that she is done and no longer wants me to come home.
Then she sent me a long text saying I am mooching off my parents and that they don't really want me here and that she is going to go against the terms of the separation and take the kids and go live with OM since he is a friend and will help her out since I won't.
I told my friend all this earlier, and she said I should call the lawyer tomorrow and try to get full custody. I want to do that but I don't think I can handle them full time on my own. I start a new job in 1 month, that pays a lot more, so I will be able to get my own place and have more options. But with my schedule it will still be hard to get the kids to and from daycare/school.
So now I feel pretty down and am worried about the kids and also worried about WW trying to get me to finance her affair once she finds out I have a new job eventually.