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post #16 of 18 (permalink) Old 06-19-2017, 11:25 AM
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Re: How to deal with my situation?

Are you recording the skype calls? If he is doing inappropriate things, like calling from bed with the OW, the recorded videos might help your case.


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post #17 of 18 (permalink) Old 06-19-2017, 11:27 AM
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Re: How to deal with my situation?

There is a MEME on Facebook that keeps showing up. It says something like:

When a controlling person can no longer control you, they try to control how other see you.


That's probably part of what he and the OW are doing... trying to control how other see you. Just ignore it. Those who care for you will not buy into their hate. The people who do buy into their hate are not worth your time/consideration anyway.

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Thank you all for the great advice.

Today was tough... i had to cancel our family vacation finally (that was already paid for) so i was crying on the phone to the booking agent asking for a refund. She felt so bad bc she had gone through something similar and was trying to cheer me up. Didn't get a refund, but i did get a voucher so i can book another vacation after the divorce is finalized (thats already paid for). And im sure i will need it then.

Now i will be back on track. Just continuing to move forward and past all this craziness.

Ex finally hired a lawyer. He told me I can have all the furniture in the house except the beds and tv. He wants to start "fresh". It makes me laugh bc i know he doesnt want anything bc he stays at OWs place and she already has everything. When they eventually break up he will have nothing but his tv and bed....
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