Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
Do not just forgive him unconditionally, and just rugsweep, and move on---yes you cheated---THAT DID NOT GIVE HIM THE RIGHT TO CHEAT-----He may be having a Revenge A., or even setting up an exit A.---But if he wants to be with other women---then you both need to go your seperate ways.
As to this crap about the playing field is now level---that is the biggest crock of BS-----so now you both need to be is misery, and act like scum, I say BS to that line of thinking.---cheating is murder, of the soul, marriage, and betrayed's heart--- THERE IS NO LEVEL PLAYING FIELD, THERE IS ONLY PAIN, MISERY, UNHAPPINESS, AND LOSS OF TRUST, amongst other things
You have every right to act like, and demand, what you need, as you are now a betrayed spouse---also hopefully your best friend, is now deleted from your life completely