Messages that I saw consisted of them meeting up a lot. Kissing, hands all over each other, meeting up at hotels, getting stoned together and so fourth.
No married woman goes to hotels with a man other than her husband to simply make out.
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She says that they did not have actual sex. But they did meet up and make out a good bit with hands going everywhere.
Wow. It looks like smoking weed has really scrambled her brain if she expects you to swallow that bit of horse sh!t.
Nevertheless, do what traders do when faced with a bad trade situation and simply cut your losses.
You can kiss on a park bench, you only rent a hotel so you can get naked and have sex.
You need to reclassify you situation to a man wth a cheating wife who's been having a long term PA and as left you for him
Only one thing to do in this case: find all you can about him and expose the affair to hs gf/wife and all her family. Posted via Mobile Device
Wah nice wife, who went to hotel with her lover to make out, not for sex and she said it to you. What she want you to do? swallow it.
Expose their affair to whom ever possible. Also expose her toxic friend to all of them. she also cheated you by lying and fooling you. you are not the secret keeper of your fu*ked up wife and her OM and Toxic GF of her.
RUN man RUN as far away as possible from your toxic, cheating, heartless and disrespectful wife
So she meets up with another man, sneaking behind your back and goes to hotels, and all they do is kiss...you are a moron if you believe that.
Even if they didnt have sex. She still went behind your back to meet another man and involved countless others in her affair as well. Staying with her is only going to get you hurt more. Since you have no kids together, It would be wise to simply divorce and get it over with. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
essages that I saw consisted of them meeting up a lot. Kissing, hands all over each other, meeting up at hotels, getting stoned together and so fourth.
Sneaking around on me a bunch.
Using her friends to cover for her, who had also cheated themselves.
No intercourse , really? I guess stranger things has happen.
It might not have been a BIG DEAL to her to frequently meet a man, including at a hotel (to not have sex? c'mon...), to kiss and at least have their hands all over each other, hide it and lie about it to you -- but the real issue is, I assume, it is a BIG DEAL to you. As it would be to most sane married persons...
Okay, now I'm on troll watch. It almost sounds as if this person made this up to get a rise out of people. Or it's the woman feeling out what people will think....
Okay, now I'm on troll watch. It almost sounds as if this person made this up to get a rise out of people. Or it's the woman feeling out what people will think....
YES I thought it was a BIG DEAL.
YES we have a 6 year old little girl.
NO, I do not believe everything she has told me about her version of the story.
YES, I do feel like a lot more went on than what she told me.
NO, we are not together right now.
Only reason I posted the question is because she insisted that it was not a big deal. She also tried to get her friend to play it off as well. I disagreed with her on what she thought about it and I was curious about how many people would feel like I would on the fact that it was and still is a big deal. Guess I wanted to see if there was anyone that may agree with her opinion on the matter.
And I really do not think that we will be getting back together even though she would really like that to happen. I just do not think it would work out in the long term.
Get:
1. STD Test
2. If nothing happened she will have no issue with a Polygraph
3. Protect your assests
4. Expose what she has done to the family
5. Take care of yourself and your daughter.
6. Don't believe anything she says until you have the information you want.
I do have a ton of messages saved that can be pulled out and used if needed.
She has finally come out and admitted to everyone that she did do this, but she has not come totally clean about the time line.
Me and my daughter are fine. My wife is lets just say "OK" but not great.
She is really wanting us to get back together again but I really dont think that it will happen. I feel pretty good about things and am doing just fine I think. Do to some some money related issues that need to be taken care of first, we will remain married for a little longer so I guess she may have the chance to try and prove herself to me. But that is going to be hard for her to do since she moved out. I also have a hard time with her still insisting that it was not a big deal. If she would come totally clean about everything on her own and admit that what went down was a big deal, then maybe (and I stress the maybe part) she might be given a chance to try and prove herself.
But for the moment, she is out of my home and she is on her own. And I am just fine with that.
Get:
1. STD Test
2. If nothing happened she will have no issue with a Polygraph
3. Protect your assests
4. Expose what she has done to the family and Friends
5. Take care of yourself and your daughter.
6. Don't believe anything she says until you have the information you want.
Re: Was this a big deal? 
