Her OM text me the day before yesterday. He sent me a text saying he was changing his telephone number because he is fed up with all the hassle (?).
I couldn't believe it. It came out of nowhere. I replied and basically told him that I couldn't care less, and as he is so interested in my wife, he should be telling her, not me. His next text was really shirty, saying that he hadn't spoken to her in ages, and that it was all my fault. I explained that he had been messing around with my wife, so I was well within my rights to try to stop it. I told him he was nothing but a predator, preying on married women so he can have no strings fun, and when my WW got in too deep, he panicked and dropped her. It felt good to tell him that.
The text back said this. "You are the lucky one." He then went on to say that his wife of 8 years had slept with at least 10 other people, and that they live in small village so everyone knows his business.
Now, is that justification to sleep with my wife? Does the fact that his wife cheated on him make it ok to inflict it on another man? Am I really the lucky one? What an arsehole. The gist I had been given (by his wife) was that he was the one sleeping around. Whatever the case is between them, I just don't care. It's just not my problem.
I sent him a final text, telling him to clear off, and to take my wife with him. Leave me and my kids alone. I got nowt back after that.
It strikes me is that it's juvenile... Kinda like that commercial where the teenage girl calls a boy to tell him she's giving him the silent treatment....
He needed to TELL you he was changing his phone number, huh. Wonder why. Perhaps what he really wanted to get his "you're the lucky one" point across, to try and clear his conscience a little with you...
My ex husband's ow would text me, trying to first apologize to me for all the hurt caused, then she would turn around and try to justify her actions, then she would turn bat sh*t crazy by blaming me. I texted her back and said "I would love to chat but I fvcking hate you" I also told she had a face like a butthole and some said some other rambles. I never heard back from her after that.