Re: Desperately want to end wife's affair
File for D and prepare to move on with your life.
My wife did that, all the begging, crying, pleading, more begging didn't make me budge. The minute she threw me out and told me to get out of her life I got the message.
BTW, if they leave and op for divorce you haven't lost anything at all. You've already lost at this point, the only thing you can do is file for D and if she comes around then you've only gained (although to me I think you really still lose out by taking us cheaters back).