01-30-2012, 01:01 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Desperately want to end wife's affair
I am going to surprise her tonight. She thinks that I am out of town and I am going to just show up tonight after our kids are in bed. I'm basically planning to say this "Wife, I know about your affair otherwise I wouldn't be here. I won't be in an open relationship with you. I'm not going to give you X days, weeks, months for you to make up your mind. If you can't decide now between the other man and me then I will decide for you. You can be with him. I love you and I wish you the best of luck with him." (Thanks Morituri!)
My plan is to get a rental car so I can watch over our house tonight, and hopefully catch the other man there. If not, I'm going to confront her anyway.
I asked her again last night about marriage counseling, and she said that she is too busy. She doesn't know that I know she was texting the other man last night. If she wants to reconcile, I'm sure she can find plenty of time to work on our marriage that she was spending on him.
She keeps her tablet on lock down and has been very protective of it for months since she got it. She says that it is "her's" and "she wants everyone else to leave it alone".
If she wants to reconcile, then i'm going to tell her that she has to agree to have no contact with the other man. Then, I'm taking her tablet and cell phone with me while I return my rental car just to make sure. When I return there will be keylogger software on both of them.