02-02-2012, 12:32 PM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: What now?
Ok fighting, you dumped your cheating friend, etc.
But what are you changing in you and how you view your husband?
The friends only set the environment, it was you that chose to pursue the cheating and the affair. That was you and your personal values at work. After all you are an adult and that means you and you alone own responsibility for your choices and actions.
So what is changing inside you that will stop you from doing it again? We both know you are fully capable of going outside and hooking up without guilt,or at least without enough real guilt that if would stop you.
If you want your husband to try and enter in a second chance marriage with you, what is going be different inside you? Cause your husband does not want to be married to that old you. That's the chick that pursued men cheated repeatedly and lied right to his face. She shuttled the kids off to grandmas so she could spend nights in a hotel with another guy.
If you want a second chance,that woman needs to go away and a new woman needs to replace her.
Dumping a friend and going to some therapy and saying sorry ain't gonna do it. Those are easy superficial things. They haven't charged how you make decisions.
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