Re: Books for the unfaithful man...suggestions?
No book, but there is a great post on here for advice to cheaters in order to repair in the best possible way.
The post is by 'Almost Recovered' and is the 2nd post down. The 1st refers to terms and abbreviations used on this site. There is also a useful white box near the bottom of the first post that gives examples of reconcilliatory behaviour, and rug sweeping behaviour. The 2nd post, a good way down the page, describes almost perfectly the emotions we go through as a betrayed partner, and the things they have to do in order to minimise the damage. It is just spot on. The link is:
Understanding Your Betrayed Spouse - A quick reference manual for unfaithful partners.
The Sea of Stress is Difficult to Understand.
YOU BETRAYED YOUR PARTNER. NOW COMES THE FALLOUT.
A great post. Very good. It must come from some marriage guidance stuff or something, it is not just written opinion. Therefore, spot on without the crappy emotional baggage. Objective.
And so spot on.