Re: open marriage failure
I guess I'm hesitant to talk about tracking, keyloggers, cell phone records, as that borders on illegal. And what is a VAR?
How do you even bring up these subjects with a spouse you don't even know, or randomly call up her mom and tell her about it?
We're in marriage counseling, but all we've talked about are her issues with me. I tried bringing it up once, but it was brushed aside when my wife stated to the therapist that she'd "basically broken off all contact with him". In reality, all she's done is stop initiating contact, but if he calls, chats, asks her out, she's happy to go along.