02-09-2012, 10:29 AM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Re: I You Had A Time Machine....
Originally Posted by lordmayhem
As for myself, I wouldn't go back and warn myself to not marry the fWW, because then I wouldn't have my boys.
Yeah that is the tough part. In reality anything we do differently will result in not having those kids.
But in the fantasy, I'd tell myself what she told me last summer about her childhood trauma. And I'd tell myself to grow a backbone. With those two things our marriage would have been vastly different and better.