Re: Infidelity or just innocent
Firstly your not screwed. You ensure the children's passports are secured and if you are concerned she will up and leave with the children you engage a lawyer pronto and have him legally prevent their travel if that means you file for formal seperation you do so.
Next you contact her parents and tell them you are seeking support in saving your marriage as your wife is in an affair with OM , name him.
If you have access to his Facebook page read the newbie thread and follow the exposure advice therein.
At this moment be calm , your wife's reaction is expected. Avoid relationship talk do not make big decisions now unless your wife is going to leave , if she does it is without the children.
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