02-12-2012, 03:29 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
Originally Posted by Heats of oak
am reading and putting all into practice..step by step and yes I am in a state of turmoil, want to hold her, but know that would just play into her hands..she told me yesterday that she had been in contact with the OM for around 6days before I found out...which I doubt and would imagine it to be somewhere around 2-3wks maybe more...
I agree it will have been a lot longer, typically a wayward will try make contact when they get the first opportunity. In your case sometime next week when your at work , expect this, make sure the keylogger is working. I would be surprised if she does not at least try. If she suspects your tracking the laptop she may go to a friend to use their equipment or if she has a iPhone or such like with Internet access.
Whatever you do don't get paranoid and look for things that are not there as it adds to your pain. Today you know she was engaged in a long distance EA , you caught her , you can forecast her next steps . You have a plan to follow, part of that is to be less of a giver , get her out to work and balance the household tasks. Posted via Mobile Device