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Old 02-12-2012, 10:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default please help, Im not very computer savy but know DH is having EA

I am not very computer savy, yes I get around but when it comes to finding files, and snooping or recovery I stink.. I know my H has had EA, within last two years, I now fear there is another but he keeps deleting internet history to cover tracks. I have even told him, stop deleting the dam history, its proof you are doing something your shouldn't! I did delete the system CCleaner he was using from our pc, we have norton, malwasher, spybot search and destroy. I even downloaded winspy, but when he uses ccleaner it clears everything. Ive approached him about porn, he confessed, but said it was none of my business and continues, as well as internet game addictions, where i fear he is chating with women. If anyone can help me, with basic steps to find deleted history, or proof, or general suggestions I would be appreciative.
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What will you do when you do find it.
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Default Re: please help, Im not very computer savy but know DH is having EA

get acouple of VAR's (voice activated recorder). Plant one in his car and one were he takes his call.

Go online and checK the CC statemnets, cell statement.

Go to the computer store and pick up key logger and ask the guy how to set it up, tell hims it to watch your kids, you never now the computor guy mught be a cheater too.
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Old 02-12-2012, 02:10 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Get a hardware keylogger. It attaches to the keyboard connector that goes to your computer. It's impossible to "wipe" and very hard to detect unless someone is looking for it, which most people would never do. It captures every key stroke, so you can see typed messages, not just sites that he visits. More handy for finding secret chats than porn addictions though.
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