03-04-2012, 09:06 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Can I believe her?
Its been 2yrs, one month since I confronted and I still have not made a dicision. Thats the deal with us , I can D any time and she can continue to repair the marriage with a real R, or not!
Right now both of us have a pretty good idea of what we are capable of doing, we have faith that the other will do the right thing to keep the other around.
Some how we have managed to do the right thing for each other and we keep waking up next to each other.
There is hope and no need to tell her what you deside, it will be her job to fix this and keep you around, period. Just like it could be your job to forgive( but not forget) or bail.
Now that the both of you are educated with this crap, then there should be no misstake what will happen if it happens again! And for that fact there should be no reason for "it" to happen again period.
Once your chick fixes her self then she can fix *her* marriage!
The rules have changed and your chick made the rule changes and now she can accept them or not.