Well it's been a some-time since I posted and I just have bad news to share . After pondering and obsessing over this issue I did finally crack and confronted her.
To her credit my wife was upfront and accepted that every word of which she had written was true as per her feelings then!!!
But she said over the years she has has changed and has grown to love me and cannot identify her life without me .
Well nevertheless I left our home the very next day and have begun the divorce process.
She has been trying to get in touch with me regularly and was recently admitted into hospital for dehydration and is also being treated for the mental shock she suffered after I left.
Well needless to say i am facing opposition from each and every corner of my life right from my family to my friends . my parents want us to get back together and start a family.Her family is totally against this divorce and have accused me of being an abusive and greedy husband and have filed police complaints on grounds of marital abuse and demanding dowry.
I have decided to stick to my guns as I can't really see any future with my soon to be divorced wife but it's hard because suddenly i have become kind of a pariah in my own home town.