02-19-2012, 11:46 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Plan B should be called plan A
Originally Posted by crazyconfused
The title says it all. Someone cheats on you, start hold them accountable for their actions. Don't coddle them, don't try to win them back. Show them that you can push on and be happy without them..
This does one of two things.. It pushes them away... Well if that happens, you can see that they will not fight for you, or won't quit their affair. That should pretty much tell you where you stand.
They wise up and quit their BS and work on the marriage..
Either one, it's actually a pretty easy decision. The hard part is having the intestinal fortitude to make the hard call.
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Exactly right. The hard part is actually doing it. But realistically it's the only thing you really can do.