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Originally Posted by awesomecows  I am trying to make it work with him, I honestly am. I just cannot get him to want to care about himself enough to want to.
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I think you have it backwards. You can't get
him to care enough about
you to make it work.
No relationship will ever work with only one person trying. It's like a boat with only one person rowing. All you do is go around in the same circle.
He's unashamedly cheating on you. In your own bed. Clearly only for the sake of cheating. He's trying to get you into threesomes with your friend against your inclinations. And now he's trying to hook up with other men. And he's lying about money as well--probably because he's paying for sex somewhere.
You aren't ever going to "make this work". You can only either decide that what you have, right now, at this moment, is good enough for the rest of your life or else you decide you deserve better than this.
Which you do.
Whatever you decide, I'd just make DARN SKIPPY SURE that any sex was completely, utterly safe. Like 2 or 3 condoms. If he's switch hitting, that makes the chances of an STD even higher than they already seem to be.
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why does he cheat? 
