Re: How many of you were jealous/suspicious people
In a past life, I was a cheater. I am no longer that person, but as a result of having once been, I must confess to being more suspicious than I probably would be without the cheater's background. I've also been the cheatee, so have lived on both sides of the fence.
I'm always on the lookout for any red flags. I feel like I could probably recognize these quickly and easily, since I've been through it myself before, both ways!
Red flags have come up with H, they've been investigated, and dismissed, thankfully. But really? It's a shiitty way to live...
As for jealousy and insecurity, not so much. I don't find myself jealous of other women as a rule, and I feel secure with myself. Suspicions for me, are independant of jealousy and insecurity.