I have another post found here:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/family...irlfriends-baby-talks-come-back-haunt-me.html
To sum it up quick. My girlfriend became obsessed with having a child and she was more then happy to address her needs by tricking me into getting her pregnant. We used condoms for a majority of our relationship before she got on birth control. Turns out she never bothered taking it (flushed them down the toilet each day) and got pregnant soon after.
Anyways. I have been really uspet with her and we have tried working things out but its tough because I havent talked to anyone about what she has done (It would absolutely ruin the relationship with her/my family). So today ,while she was visiting with her mom, a good friend of ours stopped by to hang out (She does this about twice a week). We talked about her pregnancy and how my gf told her about what she has done to me, She told me how sorry she was that I was dragged into this situation. I confided in her about my worries and she comforted me.
I ended up breaking down and I started crying the hardest I have in years and she spent a good half hour or so trying to soothe me. To be honest, I have bottled up a lot of things over the past 2-3 years and it felt good just to get it off my chest. I thanked her and she told me it was no problem, The entire time she is running her hands through my hair affectionately. She soon ended up kissing me and I found myself quickly returning the kiss. We ended up having sex 5 times today. When all was said and done, She kissed me goodbye and left a smile on her face. My gf returned home an hour ago and ,after a quick talk about how our day went, she had a quick snack and went to bed.
I feel ashamed. I know the hurt of having your trust betrayed and now I have done that to her. This woman was a good friend of ours ,who is coming over to spend time with my gf tomorrow, and I honestly dont know what to do. Im sorry if I offended anyone on this forum with this post but I just need some advice on what to do here. No haters please.
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/family...irlfriends-baby-talks-come-back-haunt-me.html
To sum it up quick. My girlfriend became obsessed with having a child and she was more then happy to address her needs by tricking me into getting her pregnant. We used condoms for a majority of our relationship before she got on birth control. Turns out she never bothered taking it (flushed them down the toilet each day) and got pregnant soon after.
Anyways. I have been really uspet with her and we have tried working things out but its tough because I havent talked to anyone about what she has done (It would absolutely ruin the relationship with her/my family). So today ,while she was visiting with her mom, a good friend of ours stopped by to hang out (She does this about twice a week). We talked about her pregnancy and how my gf told her about what she has done to me, She told me how sorry she was that I was dragged into this situation. I confided in her about my worries and she comforted me.
I ended up breaking down and I started crying the hardest I have in years and she spent a good half hour or so trying to soothe me. To be honest, I have bottled up a lot of things over the past 2-3 years and it felt good just to get it off my chest. I thanked her and she told me it was no problem, The entire time she is running her hands through my hair affectionately. She soon ended up kissing me and I found myself quickly returning the kiss. We ended up having sex 5 times today. When all was said and done, She kissed me goodbye and left a smile on her face. My gf returned home an hour ago and ,after a quick talk about how our day went, she had a quick snack and went to bed.
I feel ashamed. I know the hurt of having your trust betrayed and now I have done that to her. This woman was a good friend of ours ,who is coming over to spend time with my gf tomorrow, and I honestly dont know what to do. Im sorry if I offended anyone on this forum with this post but I just need some advice on what to do here. No haters please.