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Old 02-22-2012, 10:11 AM   #31 (permalink)
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My evil? Well I knew him too well, OW would laugh at his stories that I had already heard and talk about movies we already had talked about.

I didn't like sports enough. OW is a sports nut and knew the ins and outs of football(mind you, I was making an honest effort to learn more about the sport before finding out about OW)

I also had the nerve to have a child AND take care of her too. Which hindered in our abilities to go out because to him nobody was good enough a baby sitter except our parents and they were never available when HE wanted to go out. So that caused him to be jealous of couples that were capable of going out to bars whenever they pleased, his solution? To go out as a couple with OW.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:17 AM   #32 (permalink)
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So that caused him to be jealous of couples that were capable of going out to bars whenever they pleased, his solution? To go out as a couple with OW.[/QUOTE]

You just can't compete with logic like this......
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I was born with a penis, apparently.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:23 AM   #34 (permalink)
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Right? I really really REALLY had to stop myself from completely going off on him when he said that.

I just responded that I was jealous of couples having more sex than we were. He looked at me kind of wide eyed and said "but?" I said there is no buts.
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I was born with a penis, apparently.
That'll do it.
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Old 02-22-2012, 10:53 AM   #36 (permalink)
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Right? I really really REALLY had to stop myself from completely going off on him when he said that.

I just responded that I was jealous of couples having more sex than we were. He looked at me kind of wide eyed and said "but?" I said there is no buts.
Yeah and that you were jealous that the neighbor really knows how to plow his wife. And liked doing it!

He's such a dumb ass! lol
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You'll shoot her eye out!!
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People who cheat commit one of the biggest sins in the eyes of god especially in the case of cheating in a marriage. Infidelity is no joke you will be judged by god for your wrong doing and actions.

We all know pre marital sex is a sin however i would imagine Infidelity is a much worse sin and all that i have learned from god/church say's it is its betrayal of a marriage and a mockery along with defying many other things that can be much worse than one person having sex with one they love in a pre marital sex situation.



Fear not your cheating "person" will be dealt with by god and judged and held accountable for their actions. The thing with most people who cheat is they are generally narcissistic people and they are always corrupted and filled with the devil's poison.
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What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat besides the standard "not giving them enough attention" excuse?
Thats all it is. And excuse.

Some cheaters would use something as stupid as not replacing the toilet paper roll as an excuse to confide in someone else, just so they can get their exciting thrill.
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We all know pre marital sex is a sin

we do?
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To be fair and in the name of transparency I am sure my misses has never cheated. That would involve other people and who the hell wants that?
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we do?
oh man im in serious trouble
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Old 02-22-2012, 12:43 PM   #45 (permalink)
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Well he said I did not listen to him ,and acted like a child .
Never mind I kept the house clean ,clothes cleaned ,all bills and any other such matters I had to handle taken care of he never had to do anything with such things .Maybe that made me dominate I don't want to be dominate but things have to be done in a time frame and if its just left will never get done .
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