02-22-2012, 08:16 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: United Kingdom
| | Re: Moving out...
I can completely relate, my WH is blaming me for everything going.
Firstly, it was my fault that he cheated and secondly, I am now to blame because I cannot forgive him as quickly as he would like. He also thinks that I might be unfaithful to him now, as some sort of revenge affair. No thanks!
Unfortunately the wayward partner needs to eat some huge humble pie and learn the word 'humility'. Without both it is impossible to move foward with the relationship. Any sign of blame shifting and projection will just push you even further away, if that is possible.
I wish you lots of strength and clarity.
"Tell me... what is it you want to do with your one wild and precious life?"