I agree with bandit 100% spend time going through the stuff in the house, start separating things, throwing stuff out, etc. Clean out your storerooms, like attic, garage, etc. You'll feel better just getting organized and cleaning out the dead wood.
Just got called by OMW for a copy of phone logs and text messages. I plan to redact all innocent parties' phone numbers on the statements.
Any thing else to remember to do?
The text messages are extracted snippets from her phone log.
Finally, my WW has been very touchy about info about a prev A the OM had. She says she shared that detail with me in confidence, and that it would betray her trust in me (I know, I know) if I shared it. However, one or two of her texts to OM mention the previous A. Do I remove that part? Or let the **** fly?
Please remember, that even as foggy as my WW is right now, I am hoping for R at some point in the future.
I wouldn't remove them at all. She asked for a copy so give it to her. She has the right to know. By not sharing that info with her, you are enabling the deceit.
You could tell the OMW to also share with you anything else she has found. Let her become your ally.
I wouldn't remove them at all. She asked for a copy so give it to her. She has the right to know. By not sharing that info with her, you are enabling the deceit.
You could tell the OMW to also share with you anything else she has found. Let her become your ally.
Finally, my WW has been very touchy about info about a prev A the OM had. She says she shared that detail with me in confidence, and that it would betray her trust in me (I know, I know) if I shared it. However, one or two of her texts to OM mention the previous A. Do I remove that part? Or let the **** fly?
F*ck your wife and f*ck the OM! Give the OMW everything you know. Your moral obligation to the truth, and to that OMW's well being, faaaaar exceeds your so-called wife's "trust" in you.
Your wife is protecting her affair partner....trying to get you to help her help the man who she was f*cking!
You know this shows the affair is still active to her! Posted via Mobile Device
I am acutely aware of this. And this exposure is clearly having the intended impact.
I am going through 180, but as much as I'd like, there is still a part of me that wants my marriage to survive. I guess it is counter-intuitive - that what seems like a recipe for failure, will actually give it the best chance of survival.
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