Like Lon, I want to know how your wife EVEN KNEW about sending the OMW's texts or info about the guy's other affair.
You told didn't you?
Ugh. Back to the drawing board.
Lesson of the day: Exposure 101
NEVER EVER EVER let your spouse or the affair partner know BEFOREHAND that you are about to expose. No way, no how, nothing. Because it gives them time to get their stories straight, to make you look crazy, to concoct more deception.
Dude. This is not remorse. Not even close:
I guess the pressure is getting to her. She spent two hours this morning talking. She says he genuinely wants to move on, but threatened that sending the texts to omw would lead to our divorce.
She said sending any texts would end Om's marriage and he would feel obligated to pick up the pieces with him.
Wow. So she threatens YOU, the person she betrayed saying that if you don't keep this guys' skeletons in the closet she is going to divorce you and she is going to feel "obligated" to continue her relationship with him.
What in the f-ckity f-ck?????
Is she for real?
I would have laughed in her face. Please tell me you laughed in her face. Like this:
"Be my guest" should have been your answer followed by a "In doing that you just show me where your committmrent lies. I hae no desire to be married to someone who thinks I am going to be kept as second best. I deserve a whole lot better."
Your wife =
Yes, that is the smiley sign for LOSER.