Mark you are so off base …..Well ,Sorry Lady , if thats what you think...
Statistically speaking…( To hell with these false Reports !!!
When the husband cheats, "98% "of wives chose to stay with their cheating husband and repair the marriage.
( whatever the percentage ,most chose/choose to stay, since they are insecure without their hubbies out of fear or for security reasons and children,further the facts of these days in the world is that far less husbands cheat than wives, their reasons are sexual than anything else, as your hubby does)
When the wife cheats, only about 5% of the husbands chose to stay with their cheating wife and repair the marriage.
( women cheat more than men,and the reasons are merely sexual and though they have loving husbands....)
Cheating: it's increasing with a larger difference in %ges,like if its <>50% men, its 50-60%>n more by women)....cant believe or get this..?
you are in the DISTORTED SOCIETAL BELIEFS...aided by wrong statistics ...
Thus statically speaking, you are all wet.( your view makes you think so and marvel in its uncanny perceptions) Now,you yourself have the wrong statistics in your prejudiced data base of your mind...then who can convince you regard to reality...? perhaps Michelle Langley or "Evolutionary & Social Scientists "..or True Sexologists ..who can tell you The Reality if you are closed on it ?, that which overthrows all crap statistics you have pointed out? , may be you will be downright wet by all those details once you get it correct...
Further I could care less what others do. This is my life and I make the decisions about what I will and will not allow in my life.
---Yes , its your life, your trouble, so care less on others opinions too , why drum a Congo here, on yours and your hubby's trble then.?
Why do you ask for advice or suggestions by posting,if you dint care for others' opinions..?
Get a clue. In my post I mention years of him cheating not only on line but meeting women that he knows from on line and having affairs with them in real life. From that the astute reader would realize that there is a lot more going on here than the little bit I talked about in my post.
In my first post I have disclosed only about 1% of what has gone in over the years and what is going on right now.
Rest assured that we have already gone through all the counseling, psychiatric visits, etc etc. NOTHING has changed his behavior; he only gets more and more secretive. Since my original post I have found more things online to include that he has been on web sites for married people looking for local women to meet and have sex with.
And things in our marriage only get worse and worse.
None of the above apply to my situation. When giving advice, I suggest that you ask questions first before jumping to conclusions.
----Hmmm..If people give suggestions( which are not necessarily the final advice), does it mean that you should take those? do you think people here has given "advice" by doing so with all details given and then were analysed by them..?do anyone really care.? You seem in the same agitation as you are with your issue..You can do one thing, Calm down and relax,think,analyse,infer decide..
Be strong and be an over comer.