Mark you are so off base …..
Women have cheated on their hubbies for 12 , 20 etc etc years..and still the hubbies have gone for saving the marriage..but women cant forgive the men, in similar vigor..
When the husband cheats, 98% of wives chose to stay with their cheating husband and repair the marriage.
When the wife cheats, only about 5% of the husbands chose to stay with their cheating wife and repair the marriage.
Thus statically speaking, you are all wet.
Further I could care less what others do. This is my life and I make the decisions about what I will and will not allow in my life.
here the guy seems to be just freaking with less serious stuffs...a good strong counselling can change things for better, for both of you...and he needs awareness and a bit of psychological help.
Get a clue. In my post I mention years of him cheating not only on line but meeting women that he knows from on line and having affairs with them in real life. From that the astute reader would realize that there is a lot more going on here than the little bit I talked about in my post.
In my first post I have disclosed only about 1% of what has gone in over the years and what is going on right now.
Rest assured that we have already gone through all the counseling, psychiatric visits, etc etc. NOTHING has changed his behavior; he only gets more and more secretive. Since my original post I have found more things online to include that he has been on web sites for married people looking for local women to meet and have sex with.
And things in our marriage only get worse and worse.
dont jump into impulsive decisions as others suggest to divorce or seeing an attorney etc...be wise, give more thoughts with all frames of references for the right decision making ...
None of the above apply to my situation. When giving advice, I suggest that you ask questions first before jumping to conclusions.