ilovechocolate

I found h secret mobile phone (he actually took it on holidays and hid it behind the wash hand basin pipes!)
He use to keep it hidden at his work but she had been diagonosed with cancer couple of monthe earlier and he "wanted to keep in touch while we were away to see how she was doing" , Holidays have always been family time and the fact that he brought his poision with him really hurt.
I tried to read text messages when I found the phone but was shaking too much to work the phone - in the middle of our showdown he managed to get the phone off me and deleted everything before i could read it - maybe in hindsight a good thing but it really Pi"""d me off at the time.

movin on

i did see my wifes face.i went to her work and ask about a store reciept.i was sweet as candy.and as i left noticed there were no customers in the restaraunt.i turned around and she was standing beside the girl who owns the place and i say "you shouldnt let your ipod on the nightsand,were i can see it,you left your fb and twitter logged in and i now know you F**ked tattoo boy" and walked to the door and as i opened it i turned around and said"im going to file the divorce papers now so....have a good day." the look on their faces was priceless.

always_hopefull

I got a message from his exgf through FB. He had been having an ea, pos pa with her for several years. Apparently he went back east near her and had a ons. She got mad and told me about both affairs.

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cantmove

Wow this is a loaded question. No judgement please. I judge myself enough. Dday#1My brothers sil worked for my h and noticed he was cheating with another employee .So my brother spied on him found out and confronted him with my dad. They decided not to tell me because h said it would never happen again. My brothers wife called me anyway so I called H told him I knew and he came home begging forgiveness. I forgave him even though it had lasted a year because I had newborn baby. Fastforward 9 years later, Dday#2 we got a crazy expensive cell bill 2 months in a row. @nd month i got on line noticed a same # hundreds of times. Confronted him he said a purveyoe, I said I'll call the # , he confessed same woman for past 6 years and ilybinilwy. He ended it and I begged for another chance. He agreed. Well one month ago we separated. first he said divorce then he said lets date and live apart. Dday#3 ok well yesterday i got a funny vibe on phone with him and drove by her house for 1st time in months He was there and i walked in her house and caught them on the bed. All I can say is thank God they had clothes on. I have enough bad images to last me a lifetime