Re: finding out
The first time was by total mistake. It was Valentine's Day and I was clearing out the internet history when I came upon a dating profile for him online where he had, that very day, sent out numerous message/banter to numerous women.
The second time, he sat me down and told me he had sex with someone else several times. That hurt.
The third time I found him, again, on dating sites. I confronted him and he admitted to being on 2 more of which I knew nothing about. See, he thought I was talking about one site, but in fact he revealed himself to be on more! Imagine his face when I told him "What are you talking about?" (That is 3 in total). When I showed him his dating ads he got flustered & said "Jelly, you are a very unhappy person." Um, ok. He also told me "I dont need the internet to meet b!tches."
I also, a long time after the fact, found out that the entire time we were in marriage counselling (after he'd finally agreed to go), he had been flirt/chatting wtih this chick on his FB, one of who always made me suspicious. He told me several times he would never remove her from his FB cause she was his "friend" and it would be "rude," essentially choosing her over our marriage. She had even sent him invites to parties saying "There will be lots of girls there! Bring your friend (his best guy friend)!" Who says that to someone on a public forum unless they think they are on the market?
Last edited by Jellybeans; 02-29-2012 at 08:55 AM.