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Old 03-04-2012, 11:26 AM   #46 (permalink)
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Ever wonder if this couple is doing it for attention?

I mean, who goes on the TV to talk about this nonsense. sickening.

I wouldn't put it past people these days.
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Ever wonder if this couple is doing it for attention?

I mean, who goes on the TV to talk about this nonsense. sickening.

I wouldn't put it past people these days.
That's the part that baffles me (the rest I can understand why - he's an idiot, much less than 41 years mature). You would think that anyone would know that going public like that is painting a giant target on your face for the rest of your life. (regardless of the success or failure of the relationship).

After I split from my ex- (I would say got divorced, but that took a while to get finalized, and we were living in separate states well before that), I got interest from a lot of women, including a couple that were almost the same age difference younger than I. I passed on them - paused for a second to admire the taut youthful bods sure - but never started down the path to making something happen, because it was sooo quickly apparent in each specific instance that we were in completely different chapters of our lives. I have to suspect this guy is in a fog, because I don't see how it could work to last even if they both are sincerely committed. The children issue alone to start with. She'll want kids of her own soon enough , say a couple between now and 25. That'd make him 67 when littlest one graduates high school (I'll be 55 when that happens for me, dreading it and wish I had started 10 years sooner, but that's another story). I suppose that would be karma kicking him in the posterior.

I suppose I should note that my fiance is a dozen years younger than I, and I can list dozens of reasons why we make sense together, but generally speaking, the further younger I could go, the more and more unlikely it is I could find that level of relationship compatibility. Just the way it is.
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Old 03-04-2012, 10:22 PM   #48 (permalink)
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warlock, what does this POS and broken girl have to do with you? Judging them won't change the world. Screw them and the pubplicity. Were was the media when my wife was screwing around? LOL
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