Re: Wife of 11 years cheated on me
matrixD I would recommend that if the OMW agreed, that the two of you confront your DW(WW). Seeing her and explaining that you've already shown her the text between her and the OM, may be enough of a shocker to your DW as pouring a bucket of ice cold water over the top of her head. Its all 'fun and games' to her until she sees the face of her victim(s) - if the OMW has children, they also are victims of your DW's selfish and destructive behavior.
'I'd rather live by a dream, than live by a lie.