Re: Wife of 11 years cheated on me
For me I have found myself in the six lower realms for a good portion of my life. All of you have been there too. But as you see, being there for complete strangers allows us to step out of the lower and into the upper. I don't know what I would if I hadn't asked for help. MatrixD, you did the right thing by asking as well. I hope you feel as strengthend as I do now. I still haven't filed for divorce, there is a remaining shred of hope that she will wake up, come to her senses and we can grow and learn from this sort of thing. But, it's not easy for men on this sort of thing. We have an ego, and when it is damaged is not easily repaired. It takes several hot 21 year old girls to fully rebound. (I don't make the rules, I just enjoy them) We will always come back from these things, and if we don't we won't be around to care.