Re: Wife of 11 years cheated on me
Matrix - You know her better than anyone, and if you are nervous about her hurting herself, you should contact her father. Maybe she is mourning the loss of the OM, or the dream of the OM. The statement she doesn't know if she is cut out for motherhood is telling. You can check out of a marriage - not out of parenting. This is a woman spending time away from a 3 y/o, a 3 y/o! All preceded by an EA with an OM. If they were together, would she be so forelorn?
Contact an attorney, start the process. It can always be stopped. Just, you're exiting limbo. Tell her, it seems she wants to leave but lacks the constitution, but that you suffer from no such cowardice.