that_girl

Yea. I understand wanting to play this game.

However, you want to look like a mature, respectable woman. So your Ex says, "damn...i left that for this immature child."

Be smart in how you play the game that's all.

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EleGirl

I agree with the others. Do not get is a piss contest with her online. You are the wife... (the Queen). She is the booty call. Ignore her as though she does not exist. This will anger her even more and you look good for doing it.

But do go to her parents. Take all of your children and/or a photo of your family. Wear something that makes you look very pregnant. You might even want to print off the twitter and facebook stuff to show them. Tell them that their daughter is engaged in an affair with your husband.

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Honeystly

Yeah, I won't do it... I just want to think about something that would make smile right about now. I don't have it in me... I wish I did.

Jellybeans

Well what things make you smile? A certain dessert? A good song? A celebrity? Think about that and smile.

Get busy, girl. Get a new hobby, call up an old friend, buy a new perfume and underwear and smile at a hottie.

In the interim, FILE for child support at minimum. The sooner you axe this idiot from your life, the better.

You standing in the eye of the storm doing nothing is going to set you way freakin back. So you have to decide: do you want to stay in the tornado? Or will you release yourself from it?

WhereAmI

I get what you're saying and I'd only play that game if she weren't able to get under your skin. Since she is I don't think you should do anything to escalate the situation. You might end up in physical confrontation. And if it's true that she's under 18 you should be calling the police after copying her twitter feed so the evidence can't be erased.

If she is now and always has been of legal age while with your H and you insist on shaking things up, I'd use lines like- "Distance must REALLY make the heart grow fonder! " and "Wow! Old dogs really can learn new tricks! I'm a happy girl!" You can find ways to explain these away to your H and eventually he'll start to think she's crazy because she overreacts to things.
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Jellybeans

Offtopic:

I just want to say: there are so many great woman on TAM who are caring/thoughtful/supportive. You guys are a great bunch

that_girl

I know.

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Runs like Dog

Piss off or Genghis Khan burned your civilization to the ground, killed all the men, raped the women and enslaved all the children piss off?

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reset button

He will never come clean.... what he is doing is ILLEGAL!

Honeystly

She'll be 18 next month. Age of consent here is 16

Almostrecovered

times 10,000

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that_girl

Gross. Just wash your hands of this mess. Seriously. File for D and support and tell him to eff off.

Go get your hair did

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Jellybeans

And get new sexy underwear. You will feel better, dear.

Thorburn

No it is not illegal. Some states have consent laws and they vary. 17 year old having sex with an older man not illegal.

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MrsOldNews

The age of consent is 16 in my state too but that doesn't mean her parents wont think " my little child is getting taken advantage of by an older married man" they are still in here sphere of influence especially if she's living off them.