03-16-2012, 12:06 PM
Join Date: Nov 2011
| | Re: V for Vendetta....how to piss of the OW
Undies, go all out, none at all. Go commando. JK
There are fine folks out there and in time you may change your mind.
For me trust is over rated. I have become cynical. My WS said she wants to build trust and I told her go ahead but I will more than likely not trust her again. She said how can you love me if you don't trust me. I said they are two different things. I told her I love my older brother but i would never trust you and him being alone together. I don't trust you and I surely don't trust him (nothing ever happended between them, they have never been alone together). My brother is very weathly, a fun guy to be around, you name a person he knows them (he even knows Celine Dion and he has been at her place in Florida), but I have seen him look at my wife. Maybe my view on trust will change in the future but right now it is certainly not a project that I care to undertake. My WS can work on building trust but for me it is actions and not doing this crap ever again.
This kind of cosmic dumbassery occupies a temporal plane of ineptitude and lack of reason so profound a Zen master could spend a lifetime meditating upon its philosophical consequences.”