Thorburn

Undies, go all out, none at all. Go commando. JK

There are fine folks out there and in time you may change your mind.

For me trust is over rated. I have become cynical. My WS said she wants to build trust and I told her go ahead but I will more than likely not trust her again. She said how can you love me if you don't trust me. I said they are two different things. I told her I love my older brother but i would never trust you and him being alone together. I don't trust you and I surely don't trust him (nothing ever happended between them, they have never been alone together). My brother is very weathly, a fun guy to be around, you name a person he knows them (he even knows Celine Dion and he has been at her place in Florida), but I have seen him look at my wife. Maybe my view on trust will change in the future but right now it is certainly not a project that I care to undertake. My WS can work on building trust but for me it is actions and not doing this crap ever again.

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This kind of cosmic dumbassery occupies a temporal plane of ineptitude and lack of reason so profound a Zen master could spend a lifetime meditating upon its philosophical consequences.”

Jellybeans

Love that tidbit "EFF OFF X"



100% yes. Out of sight, out of mind. Blank them from your life (and internet).

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Exposure Letter

Letter to OM/OW

that_girl

And then, once you tell your ex to eff off in your mind...get dolled up even if you don't want to, stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how awesome and beautiful you are.

I know you feel like building all your walls up again. Understandable. But you never know what life has in store for you. This could have been just a life lesson and your true mate is out there, just waiting for you to heal I'm a 'glass half full' person...can't help it.

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