V for Vendetta....how to piss of the OW

Honeystly · 03-16-2012, 09:06 AM

Hi everyone,
My husband left me for an 18 year old see link:
My husband left me for an 18 year old
It has been over two months, and I keep finding more and more stuff out via internet. The last thing I found was the OW's twitter posts. For the last 11 months she has been writing pointed messages regarding me and my husband. I found out they slept together about October. The stuff she was obviously writing about me was so cruel. The day I found out I was pregnant she wrote a tweet "roses are red, violets are blue.. f uck you w hore!". This has made my blood boil. I am certainly angry and no, I don't want him back. What I do want to do however, is to give her some of her own medicine. Lame? Probably, but I don't care right about now. What I know is that she is 18, ruined my marriage, and now that she 'has' my husband, the only thing she needs to worry about is losing him. I want to make her jealous. Yup. I want her to know what it's like to feel unsteady.... My stbx comes over my house every week to be with the kids. When he is here with us new tweets appear. She's obviously threatened and jealous already. Any ideas? Should I be nice to him... I haven't been as you can imagine.
I realize this is pathetic, but I am pissed off!

Almostrecovered · 03-16-2012, 09:08 AM

TELL HER PARENTS

especially since you have the twitter proof

Shaggy · 03-16-2012, 09:15 AM

Tell her parents, share the tweets everything. In fact when you go to visit them, because you want to do this in person, you want them to see your condition.

First - you are going to piss them off about what she has done, but you're also going to ruin your husband in their eyes.

You want to make it so they view him as the scum of the earth for sleeping with their dear daughter and for leaving a pregnant woman.

As for when he comes over, well I'm sure there are a number of things you can do that will piss her off. If she reads your FB or your twitter - you can post things that allude to you and him getting down to business together etc. - He can deny to her all he wants, but will she actually believe him?

Sour the milk.

Honeystly · 03-16-2012, 09:28 AM

guess I'm joining Twitter....

warlock07 · 03-16-2012, 09:29 AM

She is yet to turn 18. Report to the authorities, also her parents

Jellybeans · 03-16-2012, 09:31 AM

I am confused. Did he leave you already to be with her? Or is he lying to you sayin ghe wants to be with you but still sleeping with her?

No matter--do not stoop to her level. She is 18. They will not last. Stop looking at her Twitter page and FB and whatever else she has.

Sit back and watch this one blow up because it inevitably will. Promise

Honeystly · 03-16-2012, 09:31 AM

I don't want an all out war with my stbx, as he's helping financially. I want to be subtle.... has, yes def. twitter. anything else? Thanks!

Shaggy · 03-16-2012, 09:32 AM

you could also tweet "a girls still got needs doesn't she? Put x to work, at least he's still useful for one thing"

Thorburn · 03-16-2012, 09:33 AM

I posted all kinds of things that you could say on FB to pis* her off but it could backfire so I deleted them.

Put both on cheaterville.com

Hold the line on revenge. Easy to go there but hard to take things back once you put it online. This was the advice I got from family and friends as I was ready to go for bear but was told not to go there. I had a heck of a lot of ideas.

Hold the line of posting stuff online. Do not muddy up the waters with stuff that may show up in court. You want to be squeaky clean.

Hold the line with finances. Some judges do not like it when one or the other monkeys with money and can rule against alimoney, etc.

I know where you are at but step back from the OW. Easier said than done but step back. Be coy with hubby. Not mean but not friendly, stay cool.

In your case i would be tempted to hire a thug to put a video camera in their room where they are staying and then post it online. But it is not worth the legal hassles in the long run.

Honeystly · 03-16-2012, 09:33 AM

Yes, he did leave me. 9 weeks ago. He didn't tell me it was for her... I found out after doing some internet research. He admitted that the 'chill and play music' together and took her on a mini-tour as his support act already. That's what upsets me. He won't even come clean.

that_girl · 03-16-2012, 09:35 AM

Also, as hard as it is, stop looking at her tweets. Stop dealing with her and playing her game.

Jellybeans · 03-16-2012, 09:36 AM

Don't join Twitter to stoop to hr level. don't even talk about him. Let her have him and be glad you got rid of him. He is an idiot.

Jellybeans · 03-16-2012, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by that_girl

Also, as hard as it is, stop looking at her tweets. Stop dealing with her and playing her game.

the more you stay enmeshed and obsessed with them, the harder it will be to move on.

Out of sight, out of mind.

Protect yourself, your children, file for divorce and custody and alimony if applicable.

He ain't worth it darlin. You are a grown woman. Why do you want to play games with an 18 year old? Ew.

Honeystly · 03-16-2012, 09:39 AM

I don't know. I might do it, I probably won't... but it's so nice to have a laugh about this, you know? Just a fantasy I guess.... so everyone feel free to let me know what you would like to do to the ow/om

Jellybeans · 03-16-2012, 09:41 AM

I get you wanting to rip her head off, absolutely.
But you will come out on top if you tak ethe high road.
Let her twat (lol, tweet) her life away.
Sit back and grab your popcorn. Hell, I'll bring a bowl and we can share

THIS WILL BLOW UP.

Tell her parents she is fcking your husband. Seriously. Do it. She is only 17. They have a right to know their daughter is having an affair with a married man/father.

Do not get on social networking sites to talk smack. Its not worth it and makes you look as crazy as her. Ew.