Re: Head in the sand?
I don't think its fair to say that you are sending signals. It is entirely possible that you are not seeing the signals that he is sending, though, when you compare them to the lack of such behavior between him and other women. Unfortunately, you can be sending no signals whatsoever, and some men will try to interpret it as a signal, because that is what they want it to be. Sorry, but some men are like that. So, if a man tends to be focusing his attention on you more than others, and another person notices, they'll make a deal out of it. My wife has struggled with this before, and had to be more guarded when she noticed that another man was singling her out.