03-26-2012, 04:14 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Update. I was played..
Why, do you feel you are wrong because people called? They have some nerve shifting blame to you. HE CHEATED. He betrayed his wife. Now you are to blame.
Give me a break. If anyone calls you or attempts to blame you, point out the facts. Ask them if they would like to know if their spouse was cheating.
Don't let them put this on you. Get some support and keep posting so you get a dose of reality.
I wonder if they would have been more sympathetic if you were the betrayed wife?
If that is the case then you were as right as a betrayed woman who expose. Who cares what people say. This is you and your wife and your family not theirs.
His wife had a right to know. It is unfortunate that HIS affair had such an effect on her.
Remember He did this horrible thing to his wife, not you. Sand your ground and don't act like you did something wrong and don't let her shift this to you.
Back her up hard. Pursue the divorce and be relenting in making a settlement. Show them you are not in the wrong.
"Hey some guys need a book to find the G-spot. It was intuitive for me. Some take the road less travelled." Enthropy 3000