How to deal with Emotional affair

bryanp · 03-26-2012, 08:23 PM

You are very foolish and this will no doubt end very badly. If the roles were reversed and you were carrying on with another woman who you work with and at nights would your wife be so accepting as you have been? Your fear will destroy you and your marriage. No consequences to her actions equals no motivation to change. She clearly now has no respect for you. If you do not respect yourself then who will? You are in denial and hoping for the best. This is foolish and self-defeating.

chapparal · 03-26-2012, 08:32 PM

She wants to see a counselor, she's depressed, she doesn't like you using porn, you have been neglecting her. Porn alone is a deal breaker for a lot of people.

Go to counseling(was this her idea) and read "Married Man Sex Life"

Do "His Needs Her Needs" with her. Also "Five Love Langusges" And "Love Busters" books.

Kurosity · 03-26-2012, 09:18 PM

I agree with entropy you can not temper an EA it has to be a clean cut from the relationship. COLD TURKEY.

JustCan'tDeal · 03-27-2012, 10:22 AM

Stop dancing around the issue. She needs to cut off ALL contact with this man, NOW. I wish I would have done this sooner because my H and I would not be where we are now (a mess) if I had done so sooner. If you want to save your marriage it needs to be done RIGHT NOW!